Ella and Matthew

Mom, No Referee, Mom, No Referee, Mom, No Referee.....
On Sunday the kids saw the side that mothers often try to hide...the overwhelmed and frustrated mom. They had spent Saturday and Sunday arguing, fighting and disagreeing about almost anything. I broke, raising my voice I told them to sit down facing each other. I made them sit and stare at one another. After about 8 minutes I sat down with them, made them continue to look at each other here are some of my topics I talked to them about:
"Ella, that is the only brother you are going to have"
"Joey, that is the only sister you are going to have"
"You should play like Jake and Clare, they play so nice together"
"I love being good friends with my sisters, you guys should be best friends"
"Joey, tell Ella one thing you love about her" Joey responds by saying "I love that Ella shares candy with me"
"Ella, tell Joey one thing you love about him" Ella responds by saying "I love when Joey plays with me"
We continued this for about 5 minutes. Hugs and kisses and we were all better. Then later that day they were so lovely together and I was sure to capture each moment with a photo.
Joey's School Music Concert
Last night we enjoyed Joey's school concert. I am not sure why I didn't think to arrive early so we could get really good seats...I'll have to remember for the future ones. The kindergarten class didn't end up performing until the end...half way through I said to Mike, "I should of had Joey go to the bathroom before I sat him with his class". When it was time for the his class to perform, I casually walked my way to the front and knelt down to get a good location to video. It wasn't more than 2 minutes into lining up on stage (in the very front) I said "Oh, $@#! Joey needs to go to the bathroom." I thought maybe he could make it through the songs, but finally I notice my little boy doing the crazy potty dance and his little face was so red from holding it in. I got his attention and called him down...we ran to the bathroom and made it back in time for Joey to sneak back up to his spot. Now, I did think for a moment, if I leave him up there and get a good video shot I could have sent it into America's Funniest Home Videos, but the love for my son overcame my love for money :)
As you can see from the video, Ella really got into the music as well.
To read the full story, click here:
http://www.suburbanchicagonews.com/newssun/news/1466909,5_1_WA09_CHICK_S1.article
Looking forward to seeing the chix next month when we visit!
love: dawn, mike, joey and ella
Saturday, March 7th @ 2pm
Another successfully party pulled off!
Planning for my EXTREME themed party began about 2 months ago..invites went out "on time" (1 month prior) and party-gift shopping and menu planning soon followed. When you plan for a party of 18 kids and about 35-40 adults it takes a little creative planning if you want to stick to a budget.
Party Planning 101
Theme: Painting (because Ella is my crafty one)
Invites: Cards made at Meijer- 5 pictures on an easel of Ella getting "crafty"
Party Activities: Paint Smocks-(actually aprons but for the sake of the theme we will call them paint smocks- found at the dollar store)